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It's not only about you. Communicating empathy for damage done to the other person is crucial. Don't expect anything in return. It's not their job to forgive until they are good and ready, if at all. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/668c46d21c41ba75e2b51eec/1778890510958-O8N9LYDCF5Q42DXSA0TG/unsplash-image-H0nmXTsrxE0.jpg Dr. Wexler Psychology Today Blog - Is Your Therapist a Narcissist? Posted February 8, 2026 Key points Your therapist gets a lot out of the work with you—but that's a fringe benefit, not the purpose. When your therapist draws attention to themselves and needs you as their audience, it is narcissism. Your therapy time belongs to you and not to the therapist. Here’s a secret about the psychological life of a psychotherapist: your therapist gets a lot of psychological needs met through their clients. Your therapist typically experiences intimacy, attachment, and connection. They (usually) feel valued and appreciated. 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Try not to search forever for a positive mirror from someone who may never be able to offer it again. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/668c46d21c41ba75e2b51eec/6840ea58-701c-473c-be13-4142c0fecb14/pexels-vera-arsic-304265-984923+%281%29.jpg Dr. Wexler Psychology Today Blog - Boost Your Intimacy Posted November 13, 2024 Key points The loss of "the look of love" can wound us more than all the other losses when we break up. If you still feel loved and valued by your ex, celebrate what you still have. Try not to search forever for a positive mirror from someone who may never be able to offer it again. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/668c46d21c41ba75e2b51eec/8f9a301f-040d-41ea-b21c-487dc88ffcdf/shutterstock_2419858429+%281%29.jpg Dr. Wexler Psychology Today Blog - Change Your Self, Change Your Teen Posted September 21, 2024 Key points The stories parents tell themselves about their teen have power. Teens may say that what their parents think means nothing to them, but they're usually lying. The grounded parent doesn't need their teen to validate their self-worth—and the teen will be better off. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/668c46d21c41ba75e2b51eec/08e21cd7-949f-4432-82cd-58007c5aee9e/shutterstock_2460702995+%281%29.jpg Dr. Wexler Psychology Today Blog - 13 Ways to Be the Best Man You Can Be Posted August 19, 2024 Key points "Toxic masculinity" was intended to describe rigid and outdated norms of masculinity, not all masculinity. Men can still strive to be masculine without being "toxic"; the guidelines below can help. 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